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Category: Weddings

  • Wedding Florist

    Wedding Florist

    As one of Wasing Park’s preferred florists, I’ve been “flowering up” Wasing since it opened 12 years ago and have lost count of the myriad of beautiful weddings I’ve created in that time not to mention the hundreds of couples I’ve worked with to bring their unique vision to life.

    During this time Wasing has become one of the UK’s premier wedding venues, offering a spectacular rural backdrop for those who want a countryside setting for their wedding celebration. I’ve seen flower trends come and go and when I look back, I recall a much tighter, tidier and more “flower heavy” arrangements and bouquets. Flowers back then were more contrived and stylised: neater, tidier – less suggestive of the season than they are today. Even the choice of vase has moved on; long gone are the tall narrow lily vases or the wide open mouthed martini vases sitting on a mirror mat, gone too are the goldfish bowls with a swirl of bear grass and calla lilies.

    In 2009 a recession took flower decor from a place of austentacious opulence to pared back understatement; jam jars became all the rage, jute or as we Brits called it, hessian arrived on the scene and “rustic” became the bye word for many couples’ wedding day look. Lace and all things vintage became a huge trend, enter the lace wrapped flower filled jam jars placed on wood slices – one trend I will not be sad to see the end of alongside gypsophila posies – sadly the magazines did not convey the foul smell of cat wee this little flower often carries with it!

    Towards the latter half of the decade an emergence of more environmentally aware couples, more conscious about provenance and seasonality has become apparent.

    Today whilst wood slices and a rustic vibe is still very much part of the country barn wedding look, sound the klaxon for the arrival of the freestanding floral installation! These large standalone floral showstoppers replace more mainstream pedestal arrangements; although I absolutely love a big urn arrangement (nothing looks better for a stylish pedestal than something arranged in an urn), step aside urn for the more informal flower filled oversized vase or bell jar creating impact but without feeling overly formal.

    Foliage heavy uprights framing civil ceremonies replace more traditional flower filled pedestal arrangements, moon gates form backdrops and floral meadows run along aisle floors, over hanging floral chandeliers dangle above table tops. Taper candles in a cornucopia of pastel shades replace the chunkier pillar candle of yesteryear.

    Bouquets whilst always a personal choice are often larger, looser and greener than a decade ago, stems no longer bound tight and neatly pinned, today are loosely tied with long luxurious drops of plan dyed silk ribbon fluttering in the wind. I cannot recall the last rose I studded with diamante but I can tell you the craving for big over the top olive or eucalyptus heavy bouquets remain popular, as well as draping over table plans; peonies, parchment roses, Café au lait dahlias are all popular flower choices.

    Buttonholes are no longer uniform and roses no longer the go to choice instead they are beautiful exquisite works of art simply tied with jute or wool.

    Couples seeking wedding inspiration can while away hours on Pinterest which arrived around 2010 and has become main stream over the past five or six years allowing wedding fashion to be a global phenomenon rather than just a country based trend. Couples use Pinterest’s’ infinite image database as a source of ideas and inspiration, pinning their ideal wedding vision onto their own mood boards and we florists can curate our own our portfolios here too.

    Today’s couples are more environmentally aware, individuality has always been key to me as a florist but just like Prosecco replaced champagne, gin bars, craft beer and sharing platters have all become the norm; floral trends continue to move forwards in ebbs and flows and I’d like to think so do I.

    Sustainability has never been more important and for me that means using more locally grown flowers here in the UK, working very closely with the seasons so that a spring bouquet looks like it was picked from a spring garden and resisting the use of non-biodegradable floral foam in my work instead replacing it with more eco -friendly chicken wire and moss. With these things in mind I see pampas grass, bleached, dried flowers and foliage only designs coming through into my upcoming wedding palettes which all make epic statement pieces and last well beyond the wedding day itself.

    I look forward to the next ten years of flowering weddings at Wasing Park and am excited to see the zeitgeists of the incoming decade whatever they may be.

    Lindsey Kitchin is the florist at The White Horse Flower Company for more floral inspiration follow her Instagram account @thewhitehorseflower.

  • Neale James Wedding Photographer At Wasing

    Neale James Wedding Photographer At Wasing

    There are many times in my life I wished I’d taken some pictures when I wasn’t officially hired to do so. One such was a brisk morning late in 2007. With a winter chill still biting, I was wrapped in a ski jacket, hard hat perched atop my head, walking through the Castle Barn on the Wasing Estate with a brisk wind whistling through a space where doors were yet to be fitted, being described a romantic vision for this new West Berkshire venue by someone called Kate. It was raining and I’m reasonably sure there was a part of the roof being retiled.

    There was a lot of work going on. Contractors barrowed building materials along narrow scaffold planks and we stepped gingerly alongside, as much of the floor below me was seemingly missing. I wish I’d captured some stills that day, because a lot has happened in this serene beautiful part of southern English countryside.

    That was almost a decade ago, yet often when I enter this beautifully renovated barn, banquet tables laid for a hundred wedding guests, candles glowing, serving staff pouring a toast for people about to be seated, I think back to that scene, that day. The excitement laid bare by all I met when I was afforded that very early tour of this unique venue, was simply palpable.

    And it still is. By the end of 2017, I’ll have photographed enough weddings at Wasing Park to celebrate my own sesquicentenary; 150 Wasing weddings and rising. Considering I’m not long from photographing my 800th wedding in total, that means almost twenty percent of my time behind a lens professionally has been at this extraordinary venue.

    I’ve grown exceptionally attached to the place. Some of my fondest and certainly more amusing wedding memories have been formed from Wasing Park, such as a Victorian Summerhouse wedding, where a bird of prey supposed to be flying a wedding ring up the aisle for the ceremonial exchange decided to go sit in a tree with the ring and watch surprised seated guests from thirty feet up instead. There’s always a loyal friend with a stand in ring waiting by it seems.

    People watching is a great sport, and I’m rewarded a tremendous joy and gift by being asked to photograph weddings in the style I do, particularly at a place which is lavished with incredible mature gardens and a stunning scenic backdrop. Hopefully you can understand that joy by the faces within these pictures for whom Wasing Park will always hold a special place in their heart.

    By Neale James

  • Seasonal Weddings At Wasing

    Seasonal Weddings At Wasing

    We are often asked if working in a family business is a good thing; generally the answer is a solid ‘yes’.  The wedding industry is a strange place to run a business but a hugely rewarding one at that and it’s great to have a team that you can trust.  Studio Rouge has been photographing weddings since the late 80’s and is a successful family business. Wasing Park is one of the very rare venues that feels like you are stepping into another family run business, a long line of couples married at Wasing Park will testify to this!

    With couples booking weddings all year round our job has become much less seasonal, we can embrace different weather, colours, and lighting!  We have taken a snapshot of weddings photographed at Wasing Park from February through to December to give a photographer’s eye view of the venue through the calendar year…

    FEBRUARY

    The month of romance!

    After the frantic festive period and the somewhat quieter month of January, comes the first month we start to get busy with weddings again.  Couples that choose a winter month are usually quite laid back about the weather and so often come prepared with umbrellas/wellies & coats, which is never a bad thing!

    The one thing we would remind couples thinking of a February wedding is to plan ahead. Bearing in mind the light will fade from 3.30-4pm, planning for a nice early ceremony time will make the most of the short days.

    We are huge fans of flower crowns and love this soft gypsophila version Sam picked for herself.

    MARCH

    The season is changing and the gardens are starting to come alive. Spring time brings the promise of longer days and taste of the warmer weather to come. Chloe and Phil loved the idea of their four wonderful daughters being part of their bridal party. What better way to show off the joy of their special day than to have fun using a smoke bomb to create a gorgeous cloud of springtime colour in front of a dreamy backdrop that made their wedding photos truly unforgettable.

    APRIL

    A day that had it all!  Heavy rain and gorgeous sunshine.  April certainly lived up to its reputation on Heather and Darren’s wedding day.  As you can see they embraced it all, proving that no matter what happens on your day you can still get all your favourite memories on camera.

    If you’re lucky, your wedding may fall when Wasing’s famous blossom trees are in flower; never does the venue look so pretty. Nature has it’s own plan though and this two to three week period of bloom is never easy to guess…

    MAY

    WOW, what a day. These guys were so much fun to work with and the day was so light hearted and relaxed, there were few formalities and the day flowed beautifully.

    Large bridal groups can be great fun to work with especially when you have lots of different personalities to create lots of lively photo opportunities.  This was certainly the case here with their twelve strong entourage!

    May is a great month to get married. The gardens really start to come alive with a huge variety of different plants and flowers, and (fingers crossed) the weather is usually nice and warm.

    JUNE

    It is impossible to find somewhere at Wasing Park that doesn’t look picturesque. Those that haven’t ventured behind the Stables Lodge will not know of the idyllic gardens and amazing views. We love to take our couples along the gravel path to explore these areas and make the most of the time we have to take photographs.

    Jamie & Ellie were blessed with fantastic weather; they held their ceremony in the light and spacious Garden Room but wanted to show off all the exquisite gems the venue has to offer.   We love the splashes of purple flowers in amongst the lush greenery in this shot.

    JULY

    It is such a pleasure photographing a couple that has such great chemistry. This could not be more true of Fran & Martin, so comfortable together, relaxed in front of the camera and keen to get some natural photos. Married in the Garden Room with guests enjoying drinks and canapés on the lawn, this wedding had such a cool summer vibe; the sort of wedding at which you’d rather be a guest…

    AUGUST

    Statistically August is the most popular month to get married with over 15% of all weddings booked during this month. There are many reasons for this; long days, good temperatures and a lower risk of rain! Hannah & Vito were certainly feeling lucky and opted for an outdoor ceremony in the Victorian Summerhouse with guests seated on the lawn to witness their marriage; such an amazing way to tie the knot.

    With the days being so long we took a drive down Wasing’s stunning driveway, past the cows, to get some shots in the low sun. It was the perfect way to let the wedding breakfast settle…

    SEPTEMBER

    September boasts some of the most fantastic light available all year round! The sun stays fairly low all day creating a soft warm look, if you are lucky enough to get a clear day.  The days are just starting get that bit shorter and the evenings slightly cooler, creating that warm cosy feel for the evening party.

    Charlotte and Mark opted for a super cool Glastonbury theme incorporating their very own Glasto themed LOVE letters that they positioned facing The Castle Barn up on the grass mound.

    And with the sun shining, everything including the ceremony happened outside; the best way to enjoy Wasing…

    OCTOBER

    By this time, autumn is starting to pick up momentum and the colours are really starting to come through. The most vibrant time of year to get married, we love bringing some autumnal vibes into our photographs; orange leaves and low sun are a big help to us photographers, creating flattering light with a warm glow.  Sarah and Josh braved the cooler temperatures and really enjoyed creating this fantastic leaf confetti shot.

    The couple also incorporated some Scottish traditions throughout the day with a themed table in the Garden Room as their table plan. It’s really great when couples use personal items and ideas to make their day truly unique…

     

    NOVEMBER

    Kim & Clare were married during our favourite time of the year.  The weather was kind and the sun was out all day. The girls were a pleasure to work with and had an amazing bond, as you can see from this emotional image in the beautiful grounds.

    The grounds always look fantastic at this time of the year with the warm tones and fallen leaves.

    Kim and Clare both wanted to walk down the aisle so Wasing created a dual aisle setup (much like the layout of a plane!) so they could both walk down separately. It worked so well and there were tears all round. The ceremony was very emotional; I even had a little cry myself!

    DECEMBER

    This is probably our most festive wedding to date! Harriet & Rich picked the 23rd December to hold their special day.  They chose neutral metallics as the theme for the décor, along with plenty of natural foliage to dress the Castle Barn.  Harriet’s bridesmaids all had slightly different toned dresses and fur boleros which all added to the cosy winter atmosphere.

    Our most important piece of advice is to make the most of the daylight hours by starting with an early ceremony. The night time, atmospheric photos are great but you’ll ideally want to get the best of both worlds. Also, if you happen to pick a day with a beautiful frost, or even a covering of snow, don’t forget to have something warm to wear, even if it is just between shots!

    By Studio Rouge

     

  • Budgeting Tips For Your Wedding

    Budgeting Tips For Your Wedding

    Budgeting for your wedding day can feel like a monumental task but an important one none the less. Setting a wedding budget can help keep costs down and ensure that all expenditures are reasonable and justified.

    If wedding budgeting is something that’s got you stumped, our break down is here as your saving grace for tips and advice on budgeting for your big day. Remember these are just our suggestions and not hard and fast rules, if you’ve got different ideas, don’t let us stop you!

    Here are our guidelines on the percentage of your budget that you should consider for each aspect of your wedding planning:

    • Venue and catering – 50%
      This seems like a big chunk of your budget, but don’t forget, this is also a big chunk of the day! Think of the beautiful backdrop for your photos, the time you spend at the venue and the satisfied guests at your wedding breakfast! It’s all relative!

    Image by Studio Rouge

    • Dress and attire – 10%
      Gown and bridesmaid dresses, accessories, shoes and groomsmen suits etc. You’ll remember your wedding day forever, so if you’re wanting to treat yourself to a dress you just can’t stop thinking about then go for it! But remember, your dress doesn’t have to come with a golden price tag to be beautiful. Lots of high streets are coming out with gorgeous bridal collections too.*Tip: Seriously consider the comfort of your wedding shoes. It can be easy to go for a pair simply because they are the most beautiful but you won’t get value for money if you are not able to enjoy the whole day because your feet are sore!*

    Images by Studio Rouge

    • Photography – 10%
      These photos are memories that you will keep forever as a reminder of your special day, you want to be able to treasure them. Make sure you use a photographer whose work you like and who has a good reputation, but also one that you trust and who makes you feel comfortable. If the photographer has worked with the venue before, even better! This means that he/she knows what makes a great photo and can capture you at your venue in its best light.

    Image by Studio Rouge

    • Flowers and decor – 9%
      This budget can be very flexible! It depends on what you want to decorate and can also come hand in hand with the venue. If your venue already has a lot of character and charm, this can be offset on how much decorating it needs! Less can definitely be more! This is where you can enlist some creative willing friends and family too. Pinterest will be your best friend here.

    Image by Studio Rouge

    • Entertainment – 9%
      Many think that this is the area where you may be able to cut some corners. If you’ve got kids coming to the wedding, get creative with colouring packs and little gifts. If you’ve got your heart set on a photobooth – think about providing disposable cameras and funny props yourself! DIY can be just as memorable.

    And once all the big things are thought out and planned, remember to keep some aside for…

    • Other – 2% Any extras; Lawn games if your wedding is outside, activity packs to keep any children entertained, baby sitters etc.
    • Ceremony – 4% This includes registrar fees, legal costs, rings and ceremony venue fees (if different to reception venue)
    • Gifts and Wedding Favours – 3%
      Gifts include flowers/gifts for Mothers and Fathers of the bride and groom, bridesmaid gifts and gifts for the grooms party. The wedding favours don’t have to be a massive gift, but they are for every guest so the costs do add up! Home-made jam in miniature pots is a favourite cost-saving wedding favour.
    • Stationary etc – 3%
      While wedding stationary can traditionally be quite a large expenditure, it is becoming increasingly popular for couples to make their own! It adds a personal touch to the invitation. Alternatively, think about creating a wedding website. This can cut costs dramatically, allowing guest to RSVP electronically, saving time, money and effort and can help keep your guests informed if any changes occur!

    Everyone’s wedding is different and therefore everyone’s budgeting is different, but hopefully our few little tips and tricks will help keep things on track and the Honeymoon funds firmly in place and out of reach.

  • Homemade Strawberry Jam Wedding Favours

    Homemade Strawberry Jam Wedding Favours

    The aim of this blog is hopefully to give you some inspiration for your wedding planning whilst you’re stuck at home! If you are getting to the stage of being at home for three weeks now, here’s something new for you to try that doesn’t involve banana bread or sourdough!

    At the bottom of this post is a link to a recipe for you to give it a go yourselves over the weekend.

    When deciding what you would like for your wedding favours there are a number of factors to consider. Lots of couples want something that represents them, or something that people can take home to remind them of the magical day that they have had at your wedding. A really sweet option that my sister opted for was homemade strawberry jam!

    This was something which my whole family could join in with. Each little hexagonal jar had its own personalised label with the couple’s name, and fabric lid covering. If you’re savvy, you can also label the jams with your guest’s names. This can be used as a creative place card alternative!   If you are finding now that you have a lot more time to spend with your partner at home, why not give jam making a go? It sounds a bit clichéd, but I have a lot of lovely memories from making jam with my mum and family leading up to my sister’s big day. On the day itself it was such a lovely gesture as guests could take home the jar and have something made by us to remind them each time, they use it of my sister and brother-in-law’s wedding day.

    We went for strawberry jam, as we knew it was a popular flavour. It’s quite a good one to start with if this is your first time entering the jam-making world. You could also decide to up the luxury factor by adding champagne, it is for a wedding after all! There were a few trial and error batches, but we ultimately ended up with the perfect sweet, fruity strawberry jam.

    There are a few products that you will need to buy that will help with the process, I have included a couple of product links for you to help you get started.

    Hexagonal Jam Jars

    Jam Making Accessories

    I’ve also included a blog post from theKitchn which has the top 5 mistakes most people make when making jam. This will help to avoid some of the failed batches that we initially had when making our jam.

    5 Mistakes to avoid when making your first batch of jam

    What could be a better reminded for your guests than biting into a sweet, homemade, strawberry jam on their toast in the morning?

    RECIPE

    Here I have included an easy recipe for Strawberry and Prosecco jam to get you started.

    https://www.abelandcole.co.uk/recipes/strawberry-prosecco-jam

    Happy jam making!